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You know, when we put our ideas of someone in a lock-box, then we relate to our ideas of that person.
We don’t allow them to be who they are
in any given moment.
We demand that they be who we say they are.
When someone is in my lock-box, they can’t change.
I won’t let them.
When we are in someone’s lock-box,
we can’t change in their eyes
We can’t be the real and ever-new person we are in each moment to them.
That lock-box may be full of the best qualities, the purest intentions, but it still kills.
Often we put God in a lock-box, one we have been taught to use to lock God down.
Only we can break it open!
Poor hungry ego can never get enough control, so it fears for itself. standing always in an attack/defend posture, it freezes out relationships it cannot control.
Poor Hungry Ego can never get enough things to make itself happy. Soon the things pile up and trap ego all alone under the pile of things.
Poor hungry ego can never get enough love to feel complete, so it sucks up attention wherever it can…and still it never knows that it is loved.
Poor hungry ego is deprived, starved. It cannot function as healthy ego which knows its sacred separateness.
Healthy ego has no fear of being one with others and no addiction to the company of others.
Healthy ego, our sacred separateness, is the opposite of egoism.
A God who stepped back from Power and Control would definitely be Going Rogue.
Most people define God as the One with ALL the Power, ALL the Control. For them, no control/no power=no God.
What if God has no interest in controlling the world or the unverse, whether we think it needs controlling or not?
What if God has the power and yet steps back from it for love of us?
What if God, like a parent who has complete power over a growing child, continuously steps back from control so that we can mature, each into our own individual personhood?
What if God has no desire to be Over and Above us–any more than mature parents desire to be over and above their children?
What do you think?
Like it when people THINK they know you? Does it irritate you when people keep your image fixed forever, no change allowed?
Well, what makes us think that God likes being boxed in for millenium unending?
If God were an idol, that wouldn’t be problem. But to a Living God, that’s a big problem.
Guess that’s why so much scripture is devoted to ending idolatry. Idolatry is the “art” of boxing God into things, or words, or ideas.
Being idolized isn’t all it’s cracked up to be–whether people think good or ill of you. Problem is the boxes prevent relationship. You never get to be who you are to the person who boxes you. They never get to experience the real and ever-changing you!
Me, I just want to keep letting go of those neat, safe, little boxes so I can keep making space for what is Real…the Real other, the Real me, the Real Moment. I ask your prayer because it isn’t an easy thing to keep on doing, is it?
How about you?
A Very Different Image of God, NOT the God on a Throne.
GOD on a Throne is Almighty King, Lord and Master, Giver of laws, miracles, tests, graces and chastisements. This is the God Who is over and above and beyond us.
GOD on a Skateboard is an Interactive God, Alive, always moving, constantly responsive to the present moment. God on a Skateboard is about challenge, caring interplay, letting go, creating, re-creating and healing–making one. God on a Skateboard is free to move everywhere, tagging the universe with messages–”I am here and here and here.” This is the God Who is WITH us…not OVER us.
This God has no hierarchy to be in charge of, no universe to run, no servants to oversee, no legal or judicial system to manage . This is a God who interacts with every one, every thing, and every moment without exception…both Separate from and One with us. A God for fast-paced changing times, you think?See Who God is Not if you like this post.
There is only ONE God. God on a Throne is NOT God on a Skateboard, nor visa versa.
Yet we want both gods– the King responsible for and in control of everything and the One on the Skateboard who is WITH us through it all.
We can’t have it both ways. We can’t have the God we want, only the One Who is.
I don’t believe God was ever on a throne. …See http://wp.me/pLIvJ-4 for more God on a Skateboard.